How being ugly can make you more attractive

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  • Published: 29 June 2019
  • A dating site deleted this information for being too controversial. I think it's cool tho.

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  • Micah H
    Micah H  48 minutes back

    On a side-note. Emos might just send more messages to each other.

    • DollyDollyUK
      DollyDollyUK  2 days back

      Oooh interesting.... still don't understand how bloke's mind work though :D Dave's hair is bloody awesome. I want to play with it.

      • ShotgunLlama
        ShotgunLlama  2 days back

        Fair warning: sausageparty dot com does _not_ lead to PlentyOfFish

      • Why Not? Gaming
        Why Not? Gaming  2 days back

        I'd argue it's also about certain types of guys seeing women who they see as vulnerable (less attractive, emo, etc) and preying on what they think might be low self-esteem, and using that to try and initiate a more unbalanced, power-centric kind of relationship (tho that's more of an issue on sites more like tinder)

        Citation: my old friends who are still dealing w this bs from everything from run-of-the-mill jackasses to actual felons

        • Leonhart Music
          Leonhart Music  3 days back

          Jesus for once I feel like I might have a chance thanks to ugliness 😂

          • Rowan
            Rowan  4 days back

            one thing it clearly imo is false advertisizing polarizing isnt good its better to polarize than to be moderately attractive but honestly its best to just be a 5 all around that will give you double a polarized person would

            • Rowan
              Rowan  4 days back

              hey i know you your jacks editor

              • Phia Ox
                Phia Ox  5 days back

                I think calling girls "girls" is fine. It's "females" that bothers me

                • Noelle Barnes
                  Noelle Barnes  6 days back

                  this is so interesting omg I love this

                  • EsEhKa
                    EsEhKa  6 days back

                    The two examplary photos are actually not comparable in my opinion, not because of quality or colour range or some other attribute of the photography itself, but because of the setting or the motif. The blond woman is obviously touched by another person as you can see by the hand on her shoulder and in a "normal" or "natural" environment. She also is not posing or interacting with the camera except for smiling and looking straight into it. The dark haired woman is in fact interacting with the camera in terms of mimics and proxemics. Also she is in a more artificial environment and is dressed up in a rather purposely fashion. So maybe the obvious purpose of attracting is causing the different deviations of attractiveness.

                    When you take the role of the males who rated these women, I think it is easy to understand that the women with more entries in the highest index receive more messages. Who would you rather get in contact, a "4" or a "5"? So there should be a correlation between the amount of the highest rating and the number of received messages regardless of the low ratings.

                    • jack lee
                      jack lee  6 days back

                      men and women are soo differently treated on these dating apps

                      • jack lee
                        jack lee  6 days back

                        I don’t approach pretty girls

                        • Soraya Solayman
                          Soraya Solayman  7 days back

                          BIG DATE

                          • Soraya Solayman
                            Soraya Solayman  7 days back

                            Oh yeah yeah

                            • Soraya Solayman
                              Soraya Solayman  7 days back

                              NO ONLINE DATING

                              • Rigashiga
                                Rigashiga  7 days back

                                I am 203 cm tall so i am to tall for dating

                                • K L
                                  K L  1 weeks back

                                  This was fucking great. Thanks for the video ❤️

                                  • Charlottel Purnell
                                    Charlottel Purnell  1 weeks back

                                    DAVE YOUR VOICE IS HYPNOTIC M8

                                    • Elizabeth Thomas
                                      Elizabeth Thomas  1 weeks back

                                      No one ugly it’s the mind that ugly

                                      • Blaze Vlogs
                                        Blaze Vlogs  1 weeks back

                                        Luv your songs

                                        • y u sad
                                          y u sad  1 weeks back

                                          My dude are you getting enough sleep?

                                          • ani bg
                                            ani bg  1 weeks back

                                            Why are you giving me hope that I'm not gonna be alone forever? WHY?!

                                            • darknessmonster
                                              darknessmonster  1 weeks back

                                              Dave is like the chaotic good version of Onision

                                              • press
                                                press  1 weeks back

                                                oof lol bad post op

                                            • Martin Game [NZ]
                                              Martin Game [NZ]  2 weeks back

                                              I disagree with the statement "dating sites immediately filter out the people who are not a good fit".
                                              If anything, I think it gives the illusion that ones pool sample is bigger than it actually is.
                                              Of course, it does decrease when you start seriously taking into account for religion, political views, local area, interests, education, children, etc.
                                              But on the other hand of it is consumerism.
                                              People treating potential partners as consumables and trading up when they get bored or find someone else exactly the same with 1 or more extra desirable traits. Whether that be looks, wealth, humor, interest or some other superficial trait.
                                              Due to the almost never ending size of expendable partners all looking for someone. (As horrible as that sounds).
                                              Of course, not everyone uses dating sites in that way.
                                              --
                                              As for the data if it also reflects on men. (complete guess)
                                              I wouldn't be surprised if it's different because of the biological difference in mentality as well as traditional gender roles playing a part in it with confidence, approach, grammar and charisma. Since most dating sites go off of a photo and the way in which you construct your opening message. Which only accounts for about a sliver of your character.
                                              I think Men and Women would be measured on 2 different scales of data.
                                              Just my 2 cents.

                                              • Oumi
                                                Oumi  2 weeks back

                                                Honestly, since its a dating app people will go to women they think they'll answer, the left one seemed really "prude" maybe shy, whil the right one seemed more daring, sexy, more open to conversation etc, if the rifht one did the same pose and had the same clothes as the left one I am sure the result would have been different

                                                • dfazen89
                                                  dfazen89  2 weeks back

                                                  Are these strategic looking hair throws like a new age ear tug?

                                                  • xamerax
                                                    xamerax  2 weeks back

                                                    This reminds me of a summer 2 years ago, i was tired of the attention from some dudes (and i was having a kinda mental breakdown) so i cut my hair from long and blonde/pink-ish to really short with extreamly short bangs and colored it bright blue. Guess what happened? I even got more attention from strangers o.o
                                                    I’ve also had people telling me im pretty ugly, that im average, or that im 20 out of 10. And have had guys discussing/disagreeing about my attractive-ness in front of me pleenty of times. So this makes sense to me, also my confidence just got up.

                                                    • HojozVideos
                                                      HojozVideos  2 weeks back

                                                      This is pretty cool.

                                                      • Pierce and Coyote
                                                        Pierce and Coyote  2 weeks back

                                                        18:47

                                                        • Chillisilly
                                                          Chillisilly  2 weeks back

                                                          Ahhhh your pronunciation of danish is so damn weird

                                                          • Anna Fraser
                                                            Anna Fraser  2 weeks back

                                                            What this taught me:

                                                            As a girl who's 6', I should wear heels regularly rather than slouching.

                                                            Awesome!

                                                            • Cassandra Pratt
                                                              Cassandra Pratt  2 weeks back

                                                              In my school people tend to like the popular "good looking" ones and the dorky and " ugly" ones tend to get less attention. Even though they could be just as pretty as the poplar ones. I wonder if it's just 12 year old boys trying to be cool. Or just being ass holes. The ones who play more sports or are more athletic also get more attention. The popular ones (at least in my school) tend to be not as smart as the dorky unpopular ones. Maybe its because 12 year olds like feeling better and smarter than their "girlfriend " or whatever you can be in middle school.

                                                              • Dawwal Creative
                                                                Dawwal Creative  2 weeks back

                                                                Controversy by nature attracts attention. No need for math or analysis. Look at the world, politics...even nature. There's more to interact with if there's more to interact with.

                                                                • Ben Little
                                                                  Ben Little  2 weeks back

                                                                  So, me being royally 6.5 or 7/10 means I'm just completely fucked... thanks

                                                                  • 고독한-Chieludz
                                                                    고독한-Chieludz  2 weeks back

                                                                    Okcupid? More like okstupid

                                                                    • Joseph Calandria
                                                                      Joseph Calandria  2 weeks back

                                                                      Basically this study also works for Presidents and shows being polarizing is a good strategy to win where messages equal votes.

                                                                      • Lonnie
                                                                        Lonnie  2 weeks back

                                                                        Dave you look sleep deprived

                                                                        • N. Laughpuff
                                                                          N. Laughpuff  2 weeks back

                                                                          This sounds so flawed XD

                                                                          • snow white’s sister
                                                                            snow white’s sister  2 weeks back

                                                                            I love learning new things from your videos

                                                                            • Cliqueprincesslivi
                                                                              Cliqueprincesslivi  2 weeks back

                                                                              *Looks at title*
                                                                              Nah

                                                                              • Isak
                                                                                Isak  2 weeks back

                                                                                So, you should just be yourself and not hide your quirks

                                                                                • Hell Crow
                                                                                  Hell Crow  2 weeks back

                                                                                  Omg you're such a misogynistic ass...






                                                                                  😂😂😂😂

                                                                                  • bugsnot 1
                                                                                    bugsnot 1  2 weeks back

                                                                                    DAVE. SLEEP.

                                                                                    • Autumn Carthy
                                                                                      Autumn Carthy  3 weeks back

                                                                                      I guess this worked for me, my husband is conventionally attractive. I have, ehh "issues from ChIlDHOod" and he said they were an attractive factor for him. But idk...

                                                                                      • King Awkward
                                                                                        King Awkward  3 weeks back

                                                                                        Oh well then I should be very attractive

                                                                                        • Mandra Snips
                                                                                          Mandra Snips  3 weeks back

                                                                                          I prefer the term human of the human species and then you can quietly whisper girl as a result.

                                                                                          • Tllymrks TM
                                                                                            Tllymrks TM  3 weeks back

                                                                                            I'd say the difference between using girls or women or ladies or whatever else depends on if it is paired with a word for men as well or if its by itself. Bc usually i say guys and girls together but if its just saying girls Id say thats more appropriate if its people under 13. Above 13 I'd say women

                                                                                            • Erik Münso
                                                                                              Erik Münso  3 weeks back

                                                                                              Why doesn't it test correlation between 5 stars given and messages? Seems to be the obvious takeaway